Have you heard? There's a TV show featuring 50-somethings streaming on HBO Max. "And Just Like That," the reboot of "Sex and the City," has resurrected the old gang (Carrie, Miranda and Charlotte — minus Samantha) in present-day New York City, 17 years after the last episode aired. Yes, it turns out that people — even women-people — can actually keep existing beyond the age of 38. Incredible!
Or at least that appears to be the perspective of "AJLT," which depicts a world of middle-aged characters suspended in perpetual astonishment and discomfort about everything they encounter, from commonplace political and social phenomena to their own bodies. (Warning: spoilers ahead.)
"It's as if its characters must have been asleep for 20 years and awakened utterly gobsmacked to find themselves encountering such things as Black professors, nonbinary children and queer longings," said Joy Castro, 54, a writer and professor of English and ethnic studies at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln.
The characters do seem Rip Van Winkle-like, as they stumble upon and blink in amazement at very unsurprising things. "Wow! Instagram? Podcasts?" marvels Miranda at some of Carrie's latest endeavors, as if these were edgy new enterprises.
Some of the "Van Winkle-est" moments involve Miranda's foot-in-mouth disease when interacting with Nya Wallace, the Black professor in her new human rights law graduate program. Charlotte, too, evinces a weird awkwardness as she cultivates a new friendship with the glamorous Lisa Todd Wexley, a wealthy, stylish Black woman she meets through her daughters' private school.
"The show now is trying to be woke without succeeding," said Cheryl Packwood, 60, an attorney and retired diplomat. "I never liked the show to begin with; it was just so white and shallow. It's not at 55 that you suddenly try so hard to have a Black friend."
But beyond the external factors of race and politics, the protagonists seem most ill at ease with their own bodies and ages, which they refer to frequently, unnaturally and, often, loudly.
Examples abound:
Over brunch, a discussion about Miranda's decision to go gray devolves into a barbed exchange about the ethics of hair color. For Miranda, Carrie's trademark blond highlights pass muster since they are "obvious" — clearly artificial, hence not trying to deceive anyone. But Charlotte's preference to maintain a more natural brown does not meet Miranda's ethical standards.
Charlotte is "trying to pass" as younger, says Miranda with disapproval. "There are more important issues in the world than trying to look young," she scolds. Women do talk about hair and aging, but they generally do not turn salon choices into grounds for moral condemnation over omelets.
Stuck waiting in a long ladies' room line in a theater, Miranda blurts out loudly before a crowd: "I'm 55 and I have to pee," before heading to the (empty) men's room. Props to her for feeling free enough to step out of the ladies' room line. But no midlife people I know think about and announce their own ages like this, as if they'd only just learned how old they were.
Continuing the potty humor, after Carrie's hip surgery (which offers occasion for much more "old lady" and "senior citizen" commentary), an extended sequence involves Charlotte awkwardly maneuvering her on and off a hospital toilet and monitoring Carrie's urine flow.
That scene cuts directly to a discussion between Miranda and her new love interest, nonbinary Che (Carrie's podcast boss) about the latter's diverticulosis.
Rather than illuminate the texture and richness of midlife, "AJLT" seems intent upon merely pointing at it from a noncomprehending, slightly mocking distance. And for a show that built its reputation on the frank discussion of physical taboos, why is there no mention of the universal challenges of menopause — or its male counterpart, andropause?
One of the highlights of "SATC" was the characters' long-standing friendship, their deep bonds and history. This could easily provide a wealth of material for the remake, and at times it does — as in scenes where Miranda lovingly comforts a grief-stricken Carrie.
At other times, though, the peculiar "age-othering" impedes more natural exchanges. When Miranda spots Carrie seated outdoors on the Columbia campus, for example, she calls out: "I see you! You're the only 55-year-old on the university steps!" — an odd, age-fetishizing way to describe your best friend of decades. (Also, universities have plenty of older people.)
Relatable aspects
Overall, such interactions offer a cartoonish view of middle age, which pushes it all the way to old age (and a stereotypical view of that, as well). "The show depicts 50-something people as if they were actually old already, not middle-aged," said Jamy Buchanan Madeja, 60, an environmental law practitioner and adjunct professor at Northeastern University School of Law.
The series does try to grapple with many issues of getting older: loss, death, strained marriages, changing sexual appetites and an unease with new social mores. This aspect of "AJLT" can be highly relatable: "I do identify with the questioning around what you need from a long-term relationship," said Jennifer Brinkman, chief of staff to the mayor of Lincoln, Neb. "I myself am going through a divorce at age 50."
And, she added: "I have definitely experienced awkward moments, like those of Miranda and Charlotte, that reveal how I don't have the ease of language my children and co-workers have related to our society's evolving gender and sexuality spectrum. But I want to!"
Yet so much more could be done with this group of older best friends and their beloved hometown. "Sex and the City" resonated with audiences because, whatever its flaws, it valued and found delectation in women's adventurous spirit — whether channeled into the thrills of love and sex, friendship, fashion and beauty, or the sheer pleasure of New York City itself. "AJLT" could easily find age-adapted equivalents of these for the group to enjoy.
There are real benefits that attend this stage of life: enhanced self-confidence; knowing your own mind; the soul-nourishing connection and, yes, uproarious fun and laughter to be found in relationships (with friends, lovers, family) that have deepened with time. Midlife can also be prime years for professional success and achievement.
But in the first several episodes, "AJLT" shows vanishingly few of these perks, focusing instead on the characters' decline, confusion and cultural estrangement. And very little seems to remain of any of the group's careers.
Given that the last images we have of this gang date back to 2004, rediscovering them after 17 years would always have brought an initial pang of rueful surprise. It's natural to feel a little startled or uncomfortable running into a friend you haven't seen in decades.
But it is not natural to feel this kind of shock or discomfort about oneself, one's environment and the people one sees every day — and to keep feeling it over and over. Because there is nothing shocking about being older than 50, or being any age really, since one has necessarily already passed through all the preceding ages. Aging is just another word for "living," after all — and we all do it in increments, day by day. If only the characters in "AJLT" were given the same possibility.
This article originally appeared in the New York Times.
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